Unable to withdraw; requires a deposit!?!?!?

I met this guy called "Jay" of Chinese origin on Tinder. His Chinese name is as far as it is not also a lie "Meixue Wen (last name) Chen Tingwei (first name)". Not sure if it is true. Well, I am pretty sure, the pictures are true because I live in Munich and he pretended to be in Munich during I was absent for 6 weeks, so communication was just by whatsapp. I lost $83.000 to this website. And when I wanted to remove $20.000 customer service told me that I have to pay a deposit of the same amount.Well, I was really stupid. I work in law enforcement and already early I quecked if he is registered to any residence or the residence he claimed which is a law in Germany. I couldn't find any residence permit in this name and this birthdate but I excused it by thinking I got his name wrong. There were also many other indicators but I was also a bit in love and love makes blind. After I found out I tracked his telephone and he is located in Singapore. Further investigations produced that he usually resides in Australia. I am working now towards a Red Notice from Interpol He must feel very safe. Please guys be careful out there, be vigilante and don't talk about your money with strangers. It is not so easy getting rich but with me the greed was stronger. Thanks for reading. (too lazy to proof read, sorry)